We are a month into a new year, and many of the blog topics,
*mine included
Are yammering
at you to set goals, whether or not you have any interest in doing so, or
perhaps you are stuck with where to begin?
When we get stuck, its time to start at square one. Start with you.
To thine own self be true:
To share a personal experience, these words didn’t really
ring true for me until I gave myself the gift of living alone. At that time I wasn’t happy about a
relationship ending, and not feeling good about myself. As I was packing up a box in my home, I knew I also had some personal housecleaning that needed to be
done.
I got a dry
erase board and hung it in my kitchen and started writing out a plan to change
how I was looking at things. You
can use a pad of paper, which works just fine, and is much easier to carry
around.
Mind your Ps & R’s?
Growing up you may have heard the saying “mind your P’s
& Q’s”- It’s an old term that originated in the pubs. Mead and Ale were served in pint &
quart containers, hence the P- for Pint & Q- for quart.
I have two P’s and two R’s that in today’s world are
important for each of us to be mindful of.
When your making a commitment with yourself there is no middleman,
no special equipment or tools needed, only the simplicity of being honest with
yourself. (it’s ok, no one is watching). Allow yourself to check you P’s and
R’s
On your pad of paper list these categories as column headers:
Potential Pitfalls Reflection React
Under each column, you’re going to look back over your year
and list as many things that resonates with you. I have included some idea’s
and thoughts for you to consider when moving through each category:
Potential: Each of us has limitless potential, what are your
strengths /gifts and are you utilizing them to be your best ability?
-Good at organizing?
-Love to talk to people?
-Likes to drive, plan routes
-Incredible cook?
-Good at photography?
Ultimately where do you want your skills to lead you?
Pitfalls: What are
the problem areas for you?
Are you bad
with money?
Are you a terrible organizer?
To you have a short temper?
Trouble
communicating well with your colleges and loved ones
Are there area’s where you need some additional training, or development?
Reflection: Think
back over the past year, list major events and individuals that you met. You will be surprised when you scroll
through your iPhone or Android iCalendar, you’ll come up with names, and recall situations where
you met someone significant or attended a event
React- How did you
respond to individuals and react to situations this past year? Did you burn any
bridges? Or did your network grow?
You cannot be responsible for the outcome of all situations; however, you
are always responsible for how you react going forward to help
facilitate communication. And
where it’s appropriate, accept responsibility and make amends when you messed up!
I usually walk around with the written list with my 2R’s
& 2P’s that I add things to as I think about them. At the end of the week,
I have captured as much information as I can shake loose.
It feels like
trimming back the garden, the more honest with yourself you are, clearing away
the unwanted trimmings and undergrowth the better growing season you have to
look forward to.
Share a success you have had with your personal “gardening”
in the comment section below